Time Only Ticks Forward

What are you most excited about for the future?

Time Only Ticks Forward

What are you most excited about for the future?

If I had to categorize my life as a success, I would unequivocally say that I am one. The truest measure of that success, for me, is the simple fact that I’m a happy person who genuinely enjoys every single day. I’ve navigated and cleared many of life’s significant hurdles: growing up, going to school, building a profession as a business owner – all checked off. Marriage and children? Double-check. I consider it a profound success that my marriage is strong and my children are thriving, achieving straight A’s.

Now, at 42, with my daughter on the cusp of college, there’s one significant “hurdle” left that I can already see on the horizon: grandfatherhood. While it’s still in the distant future and completely out of my control – a natural cycle of life – the thought of my children eventually having children of their own is both fascinating and, I’ll admit, a little terrifying!

My Very First Home At NYC

A long list of European American actors who masquerade as Mexicans on the big screen.

Jay here: 7/8/25
I want to shed light on a pervasive misconception that I believe many in our community may not be fully aware of. There’s a significant number of well-known actors, TV personalities, and public figures who, whether intentionally or not, masquerade as individuals of Mexican, Native American, or South and Central American descent. They are often broadly, and inaccurately, referred to in this country as “Latinos.”
It is fundamentally incorrect and linguistically misleading to refer to such a vast and diverse group of people simply as “Latinos.” The term “Latino” specifically refers to the Latin language, which is indeed spoken by millions in Rome, Italy, and various other parts of Europe. To then apply this label to the vast populations of countries like Paraguay, Bolivia, Uruguay, Colombia, and Brazil—or to lump them all under the umbrella of “Spanish speakers”—is a profound misrepresentation. We are far more than just a linguistic category. Our identities are rich and multifaceted, rooted in unique cultural tapestries.
Each of us possesses a unique story, an individual impetus that shapes who we are. Some of us are proudly Mexican, with distinct traditions, specific ways of life, and even unique colloquialisms—those nuanced mannerisms and sayings that define our local heritage. Others among us hail from Peru, Ecuador, El Salvador, Paraguay, Guatemala, Bolivia, Uruguay, or Colombia, to name just a few. My apologies if I’ve missed your specific country; our numbers are truly vast and our cultures are incredibly varied. To reduce us to a single, catch-all term strips away the very essence of our distinct national and cultural heritages, diminishing the vibrant spectrum of identities that define us. We are not a monolith, but a mosaic of unique nations and peoples.
To illustrate this point, consider just two examples: Javier Bardem and Penélope Cruz. These actors have built careers portraying characters that many perceive as authentically Mexican, and honestly, they even fooled me for a time. However, a little research quickly confirms that both of these talented individuals, who also happen to be a couple, are indeed from Spain, Europe. Their origins highlight the critical distinction that must be made: being from a Spanish-speaking country in Europe is not the same as being from Latin America, and assuming so erases the distinct identities of millions.

Texas Floods: The Unanswered QuestionsTexas is reeling from devastating floods, and while the search for victims continues, a different kind of storm is brewing: questions. Over 100 lives have been lost, and many are wondering if more could have been done to warn those in the path of the raging waters.Specifically, folks are asking: Who was on flood watch? And why weren’t warnings issued sooner, especially for camps and homes in the state’s vulnerable Hill Country?Officials in Kerr County, where a heartbreaking 87 bodies have been recovered, are saying their main focus right now is finding victims. “This team up here is focused on bringing people home,” stated Lt. Col. Ben Baker of the Texas Game Wardens. It’s a somber and critical task, especially as hope for finding survivors dwindles – it’s been four days since anyone was found alive in Kerr County.But even as the search presses on, the questions about accountability and communication aren’t going away. This tragic event highlights the critical need for clear answers on how we protect our communities when nature unleashes its fury.