If I had to categorize my life as a success, I would unequivocally say that I am one. The truest measure of that success, for me, is the simple fact that I’m a happy person who genuinely enjoys every single day. I’ve navigated and cleared many of life’s significant hurdles: growing up, going to school, building a profession as a business owner – all checked off. Marriage and children? Double-check. I consider it a profound success that my marriage is strong and my children are thriving, achieving straight A’s.
Now, at 42, with my daughter on the cusp of college, there’s one significant “hurdle” left that I can already see on the horizon: grandfatherhood. While it’s still in the distant future and completely out of my control – a natural cycle of life – the thought of my children eventually having children of their own is both fascinating and, I’ll admit, a little terrifying!
That’s a good one! I could elaborate for hours on this topic alone but I won’t. Instead, I will summarize in the style of an academic.
The Essence of Romantic
What’s my definition of romantic? That’s a good one! I could elaborate for hours on this topic, but I won’t. Romantic, in its purest definition, deals exclusively with romance—that is to say, love for another being or expressing love to another being. This aligns closely with how sources like Britannica define it: as something “of, relating to, or involving love between two people” or actions “thinking about love and doing and saying things to show that you love someone.” This is a normal human interaction and the embryonic stage of procreation, which leads into the grander concepts of what we label “romantic.”
Beyond personal affection, the term blossoms into significant artistic and cultural movements. In music, the Romantic period (roughly 1800-1910) saw composers emphasize intense emotion, individuality, and grand narratives, moving beyond the more structured forms of earlier eras. Similarly, in literature, particularly during the Romantic movement in England (late 18th to mid-19th century), there was a profound shift towards the glorification of nature, individualism, and a fascination with the sublime, often contrasting with the rationalism that preceded it in the Age of Enlightenment. This also stands apart from the Renaissance (roughly 14th to 17th century), which, while valuing humanism and classical revival, primarily focused on order, proportion, and a rediscovery of ancient forms, rather than the raw emotional expression central to Romanticism.
Interestingly, the term “romantic” also applies to families of languages. The Romantic languages, which evolved from Vulgar Latin, include Spanish, French, Italian, Portuguese, Romanian, and Catalan. Their counterparts, or those from different families, could be considered Germanic languages like German, English, and Dutch, or Slavic languages such as Russian and Polish.
The Ever-Evolving Romantic
From the tender whisper of personal affection to the profound declarations of art and the very etymology of our words, the concept of “romantic” weaves a rich tapestry through human experience. It is a testament to our innate capacity for deep emotion, creative expression, and the enduring connection that binds us, transcending time and evolving with every heartbeat and every utterance.
Sources:
* Merriam-Webster (citing Britannica Dictionary). “Romantic Definition & Meaning.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary. Accessed July 3, 2025.
* Encyclopædia Britannica. “Romanticism.” Britannica.com. Accessed July 3, 2025.
* Encyclopædia Britannica. “Romantic languages.” Britannica.com. Accessed July 3, 2025.
* Various academic sources on music history and literary periods.
My Favorite Things About Myself Languages. They’re a superpower. Being trilingual sets me apart. Especially when it comes to connecting with people. Came from Mexico at 4. Spanish? It’s still my subconscious. I think in it, then translate. After all these years, it’s second nature. America, my formative years. That’s where English stuck. Picked it up with ease. Pretty apt, I’d say. Then, at 15, classical music hit. Big time. Acoustic piano. Theory. Composition. Hanon “Piano Exercises for the Virtuoso Pianist.” Over the years, I’ve just gotten music. Understood how cultures express themselves through sound.
