Beyond The Bio: Jay’s Story

How would you describe yourself to someone?

“As any good entrepreneur knows, transparency is key. So, how do I describe myself? Let’s begin with: ‘What you see is what I’ve got.'”


As a father of three, my dedication is clear for anyone to see; you’ll find me walking with my children back and forth to the park, and to and fro from school. There’s really no mystery to me: I’m just a man, 5’7″ and 160 pounds of muscle with a little fat to spare.


When it comes to music, I thrive on keyboards—any keyboard will do, though I particularly love an upright or a concert grand piano. Beyond that, I play a wide array of instruments. I can lay down a beat on a classic American drum set, or accompany with traditional Caribbean congas and other percussion. Over the years, I also picked up several wind instruments like the flute and the Quena, the distinct South American long and short flute. Simply put, I’ve mastered a broad range of instruments, starting with the 88-key standard acoustic upright piano.


Thinking back to my youth, I was an athletic powerhouse who could jump into a “pick-up” game of any sport: soccer, American football, basketball, baseball, tennis, handball, ping-pong, or relay racing, a sport I competed in many times. Now in my 40s, I’ve set aside that all-out athletic lifestyle to embrace being a devoted husband to my wife, a loving father to my children, and a consistent voice right here on WordPress.com.

Time Only Ticks Forward

What are you most excited about for the future?

Time Only Ticks Forward

What are you most excited about for the future?

If I had to categorize my life as a success, I would unequivocally say that I am one. The truest measure of that success, for me, is the simple fact that I’m a happy person who genuinely enjoys every single day. I’ve navigated and cleared many of life’s significant hurdles: growing up, going to school, building a profession as a business owner – all checked off. Marriage and children? Double-check. I consider it a profound success that my marriage is strong and my children are thriving, achieving straight A’s.

Now, at 42, with my daughter on the cusp of college, there’s one significant “hurdle” left that I can already see on the horizon: grandfatherhood. While it’s still in the distant future and completely out of my control – a natural cycle of life – the thought of my children eventually having children of their own is both fascinating and, I’ll admit, a little terrifying!

My Very First Home At NYC